My husband and I have always felt comfortable with our naked bodies in front of our children—one daughter and two sons.
Being nude around them was never a planned, fleshed-out idea, but just more of what felt right and natural as a family.
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We have never shied away from our kids seeing us naked because we want them to grow up with a healthy idea of bodies in all forms.
Jess Spiring writing for the Daily Mail explains Why I let my daughters see me (and my family and friends) stark naked: Bonkers? No, Jess says it's the best way to stop them growing up hating their own bodies.
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I couldn’t agree more.
Of course, coming from an ex-stripper, it probably isn’t such a surprise that I believe nudity is OK.
We let them take the lead in what feels comfortable to them. And even though we never try to hide our nakedness, all the kids seem pretty healthy so far. They don’t run out in public and strip off their clothes.
And now that my daughter is reaching puberty, she’s setting her own limits of who can see her naked.
I also always make a point about respecting other people’s bodies and their wishes. If my youngest son wants to poke me in the belly button and it’s bugging me, it’s a great opportunity to teach him respect about other’s wishes when it comes to their bodies.
“That’s bothering me. Please stop,” I say to him when his exploration of my belly button feels intrusive. “Always stop touching someone’s body when they say to.”
It’s never too early to instill in children a sense of naked bodies being normal and natural in private. And to have respect for ourselves and others and to learn about boundaries, about ways that are okay to touch and see and how to love our bodies and others’ with respect and safety.